
It's been an excellent week in Michigan as we celebrated grandma and John's wedding! The boys had a fabulous time, the weather was cooperative, and of course the ceremony itself was very special and we were so glad to be able to share in the festivities. The time went by very quickly, but it was a great opportunity to catch up with family and friends, visit some old and new favorite locations, and in general get some good quality family time.

No trip can begin without some playtime at the
airport, and the boys didn't disappoint with wild running around and playing. As usual, this somehow didn't actually exhaust them, and the entire plane flight (thankfully direct) involved various kinds of entertaining the boys ("Want a present?" was Z's query literally as we sat down on the plane) with food, toys, boys, movies, stickers, and other distractions.

We arrived and got to take an (always exciting for the boys) series of elevators, escalators, watch the luggage carousel, and then grab a bus to the rental car facility; the boys continued to be super pleased if a bit zonked from the flight. The rental car facility was making popcorn, so O and Z both accepted and munched on buttery bags of goodness while we marched out to choose our car. The boys selected a nice dark red Kia -- insert irony of them passing by an entire row of
Big Three Detroit vehicles and opting for the sole import offered to them.

The next day was fairly quiet, featuring some fun times at the
park with grandma and John, and then lunch at a local diner. I picked up Uncle B and Aunt J in the evening, and the rest of the family was incoming over the next 12 hours as well; it was so nice to get to see our small and spread out family (Seattle, SF, DC, NY, MI) all coming together for such a celebration.

Wednesday was our primary opportunity to both spend time with Uncle B and Aunt J and run some errands (for reasons that will become apparent later, Uncle B had to get to Ann Arbor to pick up a guitar). First we all visited my dad's burial
site; I prepped the kids (and myself) as best I could, but it was still both sweet and a bit tear-jerking when O talked about "leaving a stone for grandpa to play with". We made a quick stop as well at the
house Uncle B and I grew up in; while the main street's shops aren't even remotely recognizable anymore, the neighborhood itself was still looking pretty good, and the house itself is still the same color it was when we left. Onward to a family lunch/dinner at one of Ann Arbor's more famous
restaurants! The boys weren't really interested in the tasty looking hot dog (Z) and grilled cheese (O) that we got for them, but when O heard there was ice cream... Needless to say, we couldn't leave without O getting the tiniest little dish of "swirl" (mixing their chocolate and vanilla gelato). Oh, and next to their separate coffee house/ice cream building, we discovered the cutest little play area, complete with (what else but) vehicles. The boys were well entertained for the remainder of our visit.

Before heading home from Ann Arbor, we had to make a stop to visit at least one of the famous
fairy doors that Meh had discovered while researching our own
acquisitions. And
this one certainly didn't disappoint; it was in the hallway right outside of the shop, and for extra fun, behind the door you can see the various things that people have left for the fairies -- including an alarming number of mentos, Vernors ginger ale, and as O and Z were quick to point out, even a tiny
Mater toy. Meh chose to leave a tiny book that she'd had forever, it was the perfect home for it to end up with the fairies. It didn't hurt that there was a toy store right across the hall. From one meal to another; we got home in time for a brief rest before heading onward to the out of town guests (e.g. family) dinner. O conked out in the car and proceeded to sleep (thank goodness we'd brought the stroller) through the entire meal. When we got back, I got to work making the wedding challahs, though the second batch had to wait until morning.

The wedding day arrived, and it was time to get the boys into cute outfits and pray that they could keep them stain-free at least through the photos. But honestly, the boys did amazingly well throughout the day. It was a beautiful morning and a fabulous venue; the boys were pleased to see golf carts whizzing by and patiently stood through pictures. My mom and John both looked so happy and I think they really enjoyed the entire day! We met the rabbi, who informed us (and then the gathered guests, and then at the reception mentioned again) that his grandsons are also Z and O.

Soon it was time to walk down the aisle -- the boys did a great job sprinkling flowers, even if O eventually decided to just upend his bucket near the chuppah. Both boys ended up somehow under the first row of chairs during the ceremony, but stayed very cute and quiet during a lovely wedding. I had a front row seat -- well, standing position, helping to hold up the chuppah, and it was wonderful and sweet to see and share in the love and joy of the exchanging of vows and rings. At the reception, O was a dancing machine and Z really got into the act as well.

And speaking of acts, we might as well get to the guitar. Both B and I gave toasts (O came up to interrupt me halfway through: "Excuse me, daddy. I have to talk to you."), and then we'd cowritten (well, B wrote all of the lyrics and the melody; I mostly just contributed chords) a song about the two whose lives have changed the most besides the bride and groom: my mom's dog Gus and John's dog Winston. There was a chorus with a big cue card for everyone to join in on:
Lucky Dog (By Uncle B and Scoot (ASCAP))
Gus is a lucky dog
With yellow fur and a big brown nose
And his favorite thing in the world
Is to lick his paw just above his toes
And his second favorite thing
Is Missy Sue, he thinks she's his mom
And his next favorite things
Are his new best friends Winston and John
[CHORUS] Oh lucky dog, lucky dog, bow wow
Lucky dog, lucky dog, woof woof,
Lucky dog, lucky dog, bow wow,
Lucky dog, lucky dog, lucky dog.
Winston's a lucky dog
A springer spaniel with a great big heart
And he's lucky to be deaf
He can't hear you [pause] when you fart
And when Winston has to make
He just paces around, doesn't bark at the door
You gotta read his mind
Or you’re gonna be cleaning up the floor
[chorus]
Now Winston's got a new mom
And Gus has got a new dad
They're glad for what they have
And they remember [pause] what they had?
[chorus 2x + coda]

It was a wonderful celebration, and the raising of the bride and groom on chairs was only mildly penalized by 5'4" me trying to lift up grandma. Everyone had an amazing time. And then to punctuate the whole thing, we took the boys to their first fireworks in the evening. While it was loud enough that I had to hold my hands over O's ears for him to be happy, everyone had a great time watching them launched over a local lake. Z was so excited he had to compare it declaratively to his other favorite activity: "We're going to the airport on Sundayyyyyy!"

The day after the wedding was a big family cookout. Grandma and I took the boys out on the boat, to much happiness all around even if there was some pushing and shoving for the seemingly identical front chair positions. When we got back, I took the boys out for some wading (and later with O, actual swimming) into the lake itself -- there were many sand toys (and a Cars-themed kickboard) at our neighbors house that they had generously shared with us.

In the evening, the extended family decided to head to Ann Arbor for dinner -- of course at a totally different restaurant. Nah, the
same one again. This time we managed to get O to eat some of his dinner in between playing with Z and a little girl who kept walking toys out of the play area (to concern from the boys; her parents brought everything back though), though he again scored ice cream for dessert.

Then a brief tour of downtown Ann Arbor, where we did spot a second fairy door -- the local
theater's
entrance for the faerie folk.

This year is the 20th anniversary of my
high school graduation; alas, the class presidents haven't organized anything, and a few other alumni who tried to get something together for August ran out of time and resources -- so it'll be the 21st anniversary before we have an event. I spammed the e-mail list and invited everyone to a casual bring-your-own-picnic at a local
park on Saturday and had a few interested responses. Alas, only one classmate showed - we did have a nice time catching up (and the boys had a blast at the park full of climbing, sliding, swinging, and spinning), and I guess too many other classmates were either out of town, had other holiday weekend plans, or no longer live in the area. Anyway, it was a fun morning/afternoon, and the boys were particular fans of an entire playground full of equipment that rotated in dizzying circles. Saturday was also John's birthday -- what a week of big events, happy birthday John!

Sunday was a fairly quiet final day with Uncle B, Aunt J, grandma, and John; we found a local mall with both a play area and a ton of toy vehicles, and the boys were plenty happy to climb around in them even without quarters to run them. Then it was off to return the rental car and get to our plane -- we said a final goodbye to Uncle B and Aunt J (whose flight was due to leave just a few minutes after ours, a few gates down -- due to weather they didn't actually get out and home until today, argh!) and were on the first of two planes back. Another sleepless flight for the boys, though we were all pleased to see the second plane had a 2-4-2 configuration, so we had two rows to ourselves. O discovered the glow bracelets and was wearing about twenty by the end of the flight.

There was a final hiccup when our car seat didn't make the last leg of the flight (it showed up today - while mildly annoyed and exhausted at the time, I was amused that the tracking e-mails and site were managed by the very appropriately named
wheresmysuitcase.com), but we eventually were home at 11 pm. An end to an exhausting but excellent trip -- mazel tov once more to grandma and John! It was so good to see aunts, uncles, cousins, siblings, friends, and to meet new members of the family at the same time. The boys are still talking about flying on the airplanes and the next time we'll be able to go to the airport (and I suspect they still will be for some time!), and it was a lovely trip home. Welcome to the family, John! Pictures of the adventure
here.